Stop the Spread of Fake News: No One is Sex Trafficking You at Target

Please stop sharing social media posts about stranger abduction for sex trafficking from public places. These posts are not true. They are urban legends designed to stir up fear while at the same time lull us into believing that if only we are quick-thinking and vigilant, we can protect ourselves and our children from tragedy.

Stop the Spread of Fake News: No One is Sex Trafficking You at Target

Some sex trafficking examples:

  • A woman was followed by sex traffickers at an Oklahoma Hobby Lobby in May 2015.
  • A woman and her daughter narrowly avoided sex traffickers in the parking lot of a North Carolina Walmart in August 2015.
  • A 25-year-old woman was drugged and nearly abducted by sex traffickers in the bathroom of a Shelby Township, Michigan Meijer store in August 2017.
  • A woman reported “windshield wiper blades [being] stolen and $100 bills tied to car handles” in order to lure women into the clutches of sex traffickers at Coral Ridge Mall in January 2020.

These are just a scant few of the many, many similar posts that have circulated like wildfire for years on social media.

I mean, I get it. Kidnapping is every parent’s worst fear.

And women and girls are definitely at risk of harassment in public, which could include being followed — 81 percent of all women have experienced some form of sexual harassment. Sexual assault is also a real fear, as one in three women is the target of sexual violence each year (eighty percent of the time by someone they know). Human trafficking can and does happen anywhere in America.

However, kidnapping and sex trafficking don’t work the way these social media posts claim they do.

First of all, human traffickers tend to lure vulnerable teens over time, not violently force strangers into cars in crowded parking lots. Human trafficking is a “completely different crime” than kidnapping, according to Beth Boggess, FBI supervisory special agent for Colorado’s Violent Crimes Against Children unit. As she goes on to say in this article: “We don’t see kidnapping for human trafficking.”

Kidnapping is most likely to be perpetrated by someone the victim knows.

According to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, in 2019, of the 29,000 cases the organization worked on, less than 1% were stranger abductions.

The Polaris Project, a national organization that works to eradicate human trafficking, says that “the most pervasive myth about human trafficking is that it always, or often, involves kidnapping or physically forcing someone into a situation.”

In reality, “hauling [victims] off is too risky. Victims are recruited, manipulated, made dependent,” writes Lara Powers, an experienced professional in the anti-trafficking field, for the LA Times. In the thousands of sex trafficking cases Powers has encountered, she has “never seen, read or heard about a real sex-trafficking situation in which a child was abducted by traffickers in broad daylight at a busy store under a mother’s watchful eye.”

According again to Polaris Project, which worked on over 10,000 cases of human trafficking in 2018 alone, risk factors that make a person vulnerable to human trafficking include “recent migration or relocation, substance use, mental health concerns, involvement with the child welfare system and being a runaway or homeless youth.”

Some might think, even if the post may not be true, something like this could happen and, well, “better safe than sorry.” The harm is that spreading an unsubstantiated claim pulls law enforcement resources away from legitimate crime.

For example, the Coralville Police Department was contacted about the aforementioned Coral Ridge Mall scare, which was shared on Facebook almost 1,600 times. The department posted on its own social media, assuring readers that they had responded to no such incidents (though the trafficking post claims the police were involved) and calling the tie between car tampering and sex trafficking “inexplicable.” When I asked them on Facebook to elaborate, an officer responded in a private message, in part, “I do not believe there to be a large risk for women locally to be kidnapped/human trafficked.”

Stop the Spread of Fake News: No One is Sex Trafficking You at TargetWorst of all, sharing these social media posts creates confusion about the realities of human trafficking and decreases the likelihood that real victims will receive the help they need.

Before you share, Google for news articles about the incident from reputable media organizations. If there were a large rash of stranger abductions from crowded public places of well-resourced, middle-aged suburban women, mainstream news outlets would report on it. Go to, an established fact-checking website, and search some keywords from the post. To learn more about the realities of human trafficking, a truly sickening global scourge, consider reading Girls Like Us by Rachel Lloyd, a survivor of sex trafficking who now runs an organization dedicated to helping girls and women out of the trade.

Social media fakery has real-world consequences. If you care about victims of human trafficking, don’t share a post without fact-checking it first!


Anne is a kinda crunchy, kinda unapologetically corner-cutting mom who has lived in Iowa City since 2004. She is a graduate student in Library and Information Science at the University of Iowa and works in the Children's Services department at the Iowa City Public Library. Before going back to school, she was a stay-at-home mom to her two daughters for several years, and took her children to the library multiple times a week. Basically, she has lived at the library for about a decade. Which is fine, because her biggest passion in life is books. When not reading, Anne also enjoys hiking, low-budget road-tripping, and drinking craft beer on a patio.


  1. This is an incredibly reckless OPINION post that you are stating as fact. A woman (who weeks later was photographed after trying to physically abduct a girl from target) was in my cart at target w my daughter in it and when I asked what she was doing, replied checking the expiration on my butter. Wtf. Then next week got a bit braver but poice say just a child annoyance incidence. Nothing wrong with being careful. Its not an urban legend.

    • Opinion?? The FBI says these stories are not true. I run into people ALL the time who ARGUE about this. Why do you want to believe it so badly? YES people get abducted. YES people get attacked. YES be careful. But this is LAW ENFORCEMENT telling you whats what and you STILL don’t believe it.

  2. Get the facts please! This IS REAL!!! One of my coworkers’ wife was in target a couple of months ago and wound up with a phone in her purse unbeknownst to her. She found it when it started ringing. They said they had lost their Palone and wanted her to meet them to retrieve it. She called her husband (retired police officer) and they called the police to report it. This happened in middle TN June 2020. So…yes…this IS true. Not a rumor!

    • How does this relate to trafficking? It could have been a robbery or sexual assault setup, sure, but this article is talking about TRAFFICKING.

    • What does this have to do with trafficking? We’re not talking about all crime here. What you describe may have been a setup for a robbery or sexual assault. But we are specifically talking about trafficking.

  3. 🙄 it’s one thing to disagree, but you women are ridiculous. I bet you’re the kind who lock the doors in black neighborhoods. Scared of your own shadows and positive the “evil other” is lurking around every corner. The author provides valid sources, valid info, and frankly your fearmongering replies serve to embarrass you. You’re a bunch of Karens. And if you’re not aware of what a Karen is, Google it. Misinformation does so much damage, because all you’re doing is feeding the mythos. Instead of falling prey to kidnappers, you fall prey to bullshit. Thank you to the author for providing legitimate information, and thank you to the commenters for reminding me why I live far away from people. I’m more afraid of idiots than I am trafficking.

  4. Maybe it’s not a risk in White suburbia, but continental vs intercontinental trafficking is different and for indigenous youth, homeless youth Walmart parking lots in interstate interchanges is dangerous. What she described is continental trafficking a completely separate category for intercontinental trafficking. 14 youth went missing from Rapid City in 2 week period of time in February and this is nothing new, they don’t have police looking for them, families looking for them bc they are at risk. Intercontinental trafficking does happen. The pranks in Coralridge parking lot….I get that it’s fake, but don’t say it’s not real bc for some people and communities it is very real. So live in complacency, it might not be a threat here in Coralville, but it is very real in other places.



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